6 months, Through His Eyes. - No Dream Too Small

* To those of you who shared with us how the previous post has helped to realign your compass in your relationships, here’s another for you to consider, written by Cliff.

Here’s his take on our 6 months.

“As Wai Jia and I spent last weekend celebrating being married to each other for six months, I started to realize how much I have changed. I understand a lot more about her which I never had before. I discovered there’s a lot more I do not know about her, about myself and about us. Above all, I am in awe at how God has brought us together.

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When it comes to marriage, there are generally two groups of people. The first group is the cynical group. This often portrayed by the media that once you are married, your life is over…On the other end of the spectrum, we have this fairy tale belief that once you have found your partner, it will be happily ever after. There will be no more heartache…

…I believe that both views of marriage are incorrect. Marriage is neither a living hell nor a heavenly paradise. The truth is Wai Jia is not perfect (though she is great in many aspects!) and neither am I. We both have our strengths and our weaknesses. We both have our differences. We have our own struggles and our own aspirations. When two driven individuals who grew up in opposite ends of the world come together, there is bound to be conflict from these differences. Because of the commitment we promised each other through marriage, we aim to encourage and build each other up, not tear each other down.”

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For the full post, take a look through his eyes here.

If there is unease within you, keep praying.

Marriage, at the right time, with the right person, under the right circumstances, is worth waiting for.

Photos from our wedding by Anthony from lettherebelight, and Samuel from Chris Ling.

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